November 16, 2007

Her Vs Him


I asked him what was wrong - he said, "Nothing."
I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He
said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry.

On the way home, I told him that I loved him, but he
simply smiled and kept driving.

I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he
didn't say, "I love you too."

When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him, as if
he wanted nothing to do with me anymore.

He just sat there and watched TV; he seemed distant
and absent.

Finally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes
later he came to bed.

I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I
decided to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep.
I started crying and cried until I fell asleep.
I do not know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with
someone else.

My life is a disaster.


Today India lost the cricket match again. DAMM IT.

Moral of the story is that :

"When everything comes in your way you're in the wrong lane.”

This is what happens with most of the girls and esp with me. I tend to think a lot and over-react most of the times.
So, next time will try to chill and relax , take things at ease .......:)


  1. Hahahaha...that was hilarious Siri :))

  2. That was nice to know...guys I tell you have the most weird thoughts!

  3. I like hum tum jokes...very funny.
    Gald that you got to know the reason for his sadness.

  4. hahahaha, I have come across both of them..and seeing them again hasnt lost its charm at all..was still laughing away to glory..!! But although i dont want to- I am forced to agree that its true! :)

  5. @ Priya: Hilarious, but true in my case !!

    @ Srivalli: Oh ya, we (atleast I) have no idea at times whats bothering him, and then on I start blaming myself thats may be its becoz of me!. I know I sound silly, but thats what it is..:(

  6. @ Madhu: Even I love the cartoon characters - HUM TUM in the movie! They are very funny.

    @ Bee: Thanks bee!

  7. @ Dhivi: Seriously, it had been 3 years (2004) that Hum Tum was released, but even now the memories are afresh and love H&T. Ya dear, sach hamesha khadva hi hota hain!!

  8. @ Seena: Unfortunately, it is THE truth seena. Hey, but I am trying to chill these days huh!

    @ Linda: Thanks dear!

  9. That has really made me laugh :-D

  10. Completely agree with you....It actually happens so many times.....
    But also does sound so funny!!

  11. Siri, very funny, add me to this list but instead of criket it football especially if Gators are playing life my dear in my house comes to a stand still. Men I tell ya never change :)

  12. lol :-)
    I liked the movie so much that I got the DVD for mahself. The "ladki kyon" song says it all. :)

  13. hey siri, nice article, when i started rdg i din understand whts happening until i read 'His Diary' first time here u c ... :) gud ....v gud ....sure to bring a smile on any readers face ...i like the toons too ....esp the second one ...hilarious

  14. @ Sunita: I am happy that, the post did bring a smile on ur face dear!

    @ Sia: Thanks dear..:)

  15. @ Sugarcrafts: Hehehe, typical girls mentality I wud say!

    @ Sreelu: Hahahaha, seriously, Men are MEN !

  16. @ TBC: Me too dear. I just love the 'HumTum' movie esp the 'ladki kyon' and 'Hutum' title song.

    @ Rahin: Thanks for dropping by and glad u liked the post. Do visit again...:)

  17. You almost scared me! :D I missed these posts as I was away at chennai dear! What is Nablopomo ?
    Men are insensitive to our tears and emotions!
    Recently when my aunt visited my parents in Delhi, she was talking to my mother and my father was upset that he could'nt fllow sachin's interview due to their loud conversation! He is 80! :D

  18. @ Lathamma: 'NaBloPoMo' is a one time monthly event amma, where we are supposed to post on my blogs every single day of November. Got to know very late from Manisha. So, I took up a 15 day challenge to blog everyday. Its kinda fun till now..:))
    Oh my, ur anecdote make me go crazy, this means I can' expect to understand 'S' till we are 80!! Gosh..I wonder y these 'men' are so insensitive..Thanks for dropping by Lathamma, Hope u had a great time at Chennai.


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